WIFE, MINUS “IF” EQUALS “WE”

 

A pretty young wife who is challenged with the word "IF"! Help her remove the "IF" to become "WE"!

It is more than just a mathematical equation. If we as husbands could solve, dissolve, and resolve the “if factor” in those magnificent creatures that we are so blessed to call “wife”, we could discover every wonderful woman in the world in just one person.

At one time, the number of women in the world eclipsed the number of men by a large margin. Today, that is not so. Players and Playboys had their pick of the litter back then, and built unsanctioned harems of internationally beautiful women all over the planet. There are still a few clusters of “Ballers”, “Players” and “Playboys” in circles that we regular guys do not and cannot infiltrate, because of financial illness. (Luckily it is not yet a terminal illness.)

The sexual climate has changed drastically since those days and has evolved into something that challenges the legal, moral, and social systems to keep up or be trampled under the stampeding hooves of carnal insurrection. Gone are the days of men only seeking women as sexual partners and the reverse on the female side of the equation! That which was once illegal in most countries has evolved into the norm for most young people as well as the businesses that depend on “rainbow dollars” to survive.

So, for us old guys, (and some enlightened younger men), our faithful and loving wives have become a rare and much sought-after commodity that can only be obtained on the “Matrimonial Market”! Men, who truly love and support their “ride-or-die” spouse, are looking deeper into maintaining and cultivating their existing relationships. This process involves the inevitable resolution of the “If factor”. If there is something blocking the love and attention you crave from your spouse, sit down together and figure it out. First, find the issue; then squash it terminally, so it never raises its ugly head again.

If she was worth your time, energy, and love yesterday, what has changed today? Did she somehow disrespect you, or accuse you of something that you are clearly innocent of committing? Did you say something that unknowingly hurt her feelings? Was someone having a bad day and decided to take it out on the person nearest and dearest? Figure it out! Work it out! The social climate is a minefield of lost causes and failed apologies. Watch your step! It is a fact that loneliness can be fatal!

Think of your spouse as someone’s little girl and spoil her rotten; give her the world. Never hurt her feelings, and God forbid putting more than a loving hand on her precious body. Lift her up spiritually each and every day.  She is the vessel for countless future generations. She embodies all of the most desirable qualities that make her perfect for you. Let her know this daily, in every way you know how. And learn new ways to say “I love you, wife”.

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